I hate the complainers – why this person always complaining as if my work is never good enough?
On the hindsight, I learned to appreciate complaints I received. They’re probably minority of the 10% of population, yet their voice often silence the majority. By looking behind the scene and working towards improving my service, I do achieve overall a better product, better service, higher standard, new breakthrough because I took those complaints serious enough.
I hate the skeptics – why this person always hesistant, doubtful, and question my judgment or thoughts?
On the hindsight, I learned to appreciate these people. Often their doubts and questions serve as a rear mirror for me. Three steps forward and two steps backward they say. They became my inner restraint and made my policies sharper and more holistic. In real life, I might even need to make 4 steps backward.