Category Archives: Life’s Stages

Father Daughter night (1)

Posted on May 18, 2014 by clay

Tonight, i had an opportunity to look after her alone, while my wife went out to buy dinner. Somehow, she kind enjoyed and behaved well. Once i put her on her high chair, she listened and behaved rather well. I … Continue reading →

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A Better Man?

Posted on February 3, 2014 by clay

Tonight, i guessed i just liberated from one more “false” doctrine out there. Somehow, I couldn’t understand why i believed and many others too. For one my ex-teacher told me,”to be a better man, get married!”. I soon got married, … Continue reading →

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Grateful

Posted on November 11, 2013 by clay

Just feeling simply grateful. I thought have done my best for my family. My baby is healthy and happy. My wife is doing well. My mum in law also seems to be happy and more understanding. At office too, getting … Continue reading →

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How to teach your toddler about sin

Posted on October 28, 2013 by clay

This evening i heard many reports our little cute girl misbehaved. From pulling the electrical plug, broke the plate, and lastly not listening to the mother. It is very easy to label her as a rebel, and punish her, or … Continue reading →

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Lesson from a senior

Posted on October 1, 2013 by clay

Another colleague is resigning soon. Thank God for the chance to have lunch together. And through our short lunch, there’s something that i learn. Season of life. I had never seen it this way before. That life is series of … Continue reading →

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Onesimo

Posted on July 26, 2013 by clay

It’s an interesting word to come about. I remember the first time talking with a friend, asking me about my daughter. And i said, I just hope to raise her so that she would be “useful” for the Lord. Then … Continue reading →

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A Tending Heart

Posted on June 14, 2013 by clay

A new development in me that i noticed this morning. I would never learnt the meaning of tending…if not for this little baby. Little baby who messes things, who purposely disobey the instructions, but also the one who looks to … Continue reading →

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A good memory, a blessing from distant past

Posted on May 18, 2013 by clay

I was sorting out my things. And i found this piece of paper…almost gone. And i realised the texture, the colour, the folding. True to my feeling, it’s the memorable paper, contains the name & address of the person i’ll … Continue reading →

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Tax Surprise

Posted on May 9, 2013 by clay

God has a kind sense of humor. And he does speak in interesting ways. This month is a heavy month for me. At first, we hope with the move to our own house, we could start saving. Who knows that … Continue reading →

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Understanding Girl

Posted on November 7, 2012 by clay

This morning, I thank God for an understanding daughter 🙂 It’s purely grace…:) Otherwise we won’t be able to pull it through. Last nite probably the first time she listened to me and fell asleep. She been crying looking for … Continue reading →

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