{"id":253,"date":"2012-05-17T15:08:48","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T15:08:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/clay2x.wordpress.com\/?p=253"},"modified":"2012-05-17T15:08:48","modified_gmt":"2012-05-17T15:08:48","slug":"two-dangers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/two-dangers\/","title":{"rendered":"Two Dangers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tonight, just attended a talk that discuss the dangers in &#8220;ministry&#8221;. As i missed the first session, i came to pick up, the first danger mentioned was &#8220;familiarity&#8221;. <em>Familiarity breeds contempt<\/em>, was said. And most the time, it&#8217;s true&#8230;..as we become more familiar with things, \u00a0we lost the sense of wonder and awe that is there from the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Simple example would be married life. After many years of marriage, everything become so familiar, and they lost the spark, and finally decided to end it. That&#8217;s the danger of familiarity.<\/p>\n<p>The second one which i thought on my way home, was the opposite of familiarity. It&#8217;s the &#8220;unexpectedness.&#8221; It came to me by coincidence, as i was waiting for bus in dark place. As the bus didn&#8217;t come, a few friends passed by that place. But because it&#8217;s dark, late at night, and they must have not expected that I was standing there at that point of time&#8230;.they missed me.<\/p>\n<p>To me, this is the opposite of familiarity. For then we&#8217;ll settle for what we know. And never we thought or realize that there&#8217;re more. Human and relationship grows, and probably it takes life time to find out all about a person. Similarly our relationship with God. There&#8217;re just more of Him we have never known. If we limit ourselves, we might miss the chance to discover Him in ways we don&#8217;t expect&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Does God do these kind things? Does God like these kind things? Does God create all these things? &#8230;. It reminds me of William Carey famous saying, &#8220;expect great things from God, attempt great things for God.&#8221; I think he understood the two dangers very well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tonight, just attended a talk that discuss the dangers in &#8220;ministry&#8221;. As i missed the first session, i came to pick up, the first danger mentioned was &#8220;familiarity&#8221;. Familiarity breeds contempt, was said. And most the time, it&#8217;s true&#8230;..as we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/two-dangers\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[106,72],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-253","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-in-relationship","category-wisdom"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2039,"url":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/no-strength-no-power-no-king-but-wise\/","url_meta":{"origin":253,"position":0},"title":"No strength, no power, no king, but wise","author":"clay","date":"November 30, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"God often surprises me with something I never thought of. 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