{"id":1463,"date":"2018-05-11T15:55:44","date_gmt":"2018-05-11T07:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/?p=1463"},"modified":"2018-05-11T15:55:44","modified_gmt":"2018-05-11T07:55:44","slug":"refined-through-suffering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/refined-through-suffering\/","title":{"rendered":"Refined through suffering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, my wife shared with me a news article which featured my former lecturer in Singapore Bible College. He won an ExtraOrdinary Caretaker Giver award. As I read his story, I could not help but crying and felt emotional in the inside.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>He is one of the person that I admire and respect. Not because of his charm, or intellect, or influence, or help. But merely because he went through a lot, and despite all those, he is still joyful and dedicated teacher. He threw his ambition to get a PhD in Theological studies, despite his brilliant knowledge. He also didn&#8217;t go very far in academic proffession, but he is one of the most dedicated and hardworking lecturer I had.<\/p>\n<p>Reading through the report, I just could not imagine how much he and his wife had went through all these years. It must be extremely tough if not impossible.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, his closing testimony was remarkable. I quoted here:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Learn to take one day at a time. We make plans and hold them tentatively. In crisis situations, learn to expect nothing, and anything else you get can be seen as a bonus and cause for rejoicing.<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s one thing his life model and inspire and affirm, I would think that suffering molds a person better than anything else. Character that went through suffering, would emerge beautiful, like the Lord Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Here the full story:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"dA4dSF6rqM\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/sg.theasianparent.com\/niemann-pick-disease-type-c-in-children\">Singapore Dad Shares How a Rare Disease Left His Children Bedridden and Tube-fed<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"Singapore Dad Shares How a Rare Disease Left His Children Bedridden and Tube-fed\" src=\"https:\/\/sg.theasianparent.com\/niemann-pick-disease-type-c-in-children\/embed\/#?secret=dA4dSF6rqM\" data-secret=\"dA4dSF6rqM\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, my wife shared with me a news article which featured my former lecturer in Singapore Bible College. He won an ExtraOrdinary Caretaker Giver award. As I read his story, I could not help but crying and felt emotional &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/refined-through-suffering\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,108,69],"tags":[160,247,250,293,303],"class_list":["post-1463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-encouraged","category-love","category-touched","tag-faith","tag-pain","tag-parenting","tag-sickness","tag-suffering"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1205,"url":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/long-updates-over-eventful-past\/","url_meta":{"origin":1463,"position":0},"title":"Long updates over eventful past","author":"clay","date":"May 22, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"The days are long but the times are short. 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