{"id":1904,"date":"2021-10-19T10:39:10","date_gmt":"2021-10-18T23:39:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/?page_id=1904"},"modified":"2021-10-19T10:39:10","modified_gmt":"2021-10-18T23:39:10","slug":"on-paradox-of-life","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/potterdreams.com\/clay\/special-stuff\/afterthought-reactions\/on-paradox-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"On Paradox of Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I hate the complainers &#8211; why this person always complaining as if my work is never good enough?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the hindsight, I learned to appreciate complaints I received. They&#8217;re probably minority of the 10% of population, yet their voice often silence the majority. 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