Housing Saga (6) – NS2 man

Common here, NS stands for National Service.

Was thinking on reflection about the recent event of house moving.

I can also say NS2(square)  as Nor Saint Nor Superman.

It describes me best throughout this period.

Far from being a Superman, i call out for help a lot from different people and friends. And many times I / my solution were unreliable. And far from being a saint…i’ve hurt my wife often and broke my promise of not making her cry.

From small things to big things … from one stage to another … there’re seems so many things we end up quarreling. I didn’t know that moving out & in a house could be so comprehensive. Basically it’s between my way, or her way. Backward from moving in (where to put the bed, bookshelf, etc), packing (what to put into this box, which box go first), moving out (where to stay, what kind place we should look at, how long we should stay here, what’s our plan next, etc). Unpacking stuff also (what to unpack first, where to put things, etc), that at end..we end up split the job…i do the dirty stuff, she does the clean stuff

My way…do first and think later. Her way … think first then do. My way put everything first and sort out later, her way… label properly so easy to sort out later. My way of moving around till find perfect one, her way of planning for perfect one and go around to find…..still many others.

It’s a good lesson for me. As my teacher said earlier, marriage will make you better man

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